I know several people with pretty faces, a perfect physique and good lifestyle. And I can’t help but noticed three common things amongst them. Most of them doesn’t have the audacity of a complex reasoning, hypothetical thinking and comprehensive statement. To make it clearer, most of them shows ignorance and apathetic behavior.
With that being said, I would like to share a real-life experience happened a few years back when I was in College.
I have a friend, she called herself Ally, because her full name was Alyssa Marie Cuaresma, she has this boyish actions and way of thinking. She’s smart, diligent and a good daughter. To tell you the truth, she’s not physically admirable, but she’s not an ogre or the like. What I like about her is the way she see things on her own perspective. She isn’t the type of person you’re willing to spend an afternoon to talk to. She has this weird aura and an out-this-world opinions with the things going on around her. And I bet you’ll have more of an argument rather than a chit-chat when you get started to converse with her. She’s doing good academically, not quite good in sports as she preferred to stay at home doing weird stuff such as sketching, creating a blog, spending much time on a forum which I’m also a member and reading MANGA (Anime comic book series).
She is one of my closest friend ever in College. We influenced each other in terms of hobbies and arguments. She always sketch in class, which is good since I also am a frustrated artist. On the other hand, I’m a geek and know a lot about modern technologies, hacking and web developing. We shared hobbies and that made me eager to pursue being a frustrated artist by doing sketches, especially portrait, whereas she made a career in web developing and hacking. We even tried to influence one more people in our group, unluckily he didn’t make it.
I shared this experience because I considered her one of the people I know with a beauti-FULL mind. Complex reasoning, a very complicated and argumentative behavior with all the sense you needed. Hypothetical thinking, she also has that, not only she’ll give you reasons, but she’ll only elaborate the cause and effect of it. And lastly, comprehensive statement, she’s never a poet, but talking to her is like Shakespeare reincarnated. She’s a lady with pride, not a man but had an ego like one. She always stand corrected and she never argued on things she incorrectly perceived. She knew how to admit mistakes and never duel on things to get out of trouble.
A beautiful mind line by Nash goes like this “What truly is logic? Who decides reason? My quest has taken me to the physical, the metaphysical, the delusional, and back. I have made the most important discovery of my career – the most important discovery of my life. It is only in the mysterious equations of love that any logic or reasons can be found.”
To you my friend, I dedicate this. From the award winning movie “The Beautiful Mind” – “Friends are an integral part of your life, but every friend you have must live life at their own pace. When the time comes & they must leave you, there is no need to grieve over their parting from your life. It is the very essence of life that it should be so. But it hurts nonetheless and we grieve nonetheless, but we hold them in our hearts forever. Always cherish the joy, laughter, memories and love that they have brought into your lives. Always remember them with a warm smile for what they have given you.”
Missing you cliqueker 🙂